Saturday, October 08, 2011

The geeky life to be celebrated



I have perhaps read about half dozen obituaries/profiles of Steve Jobs over the two days since his death. The one sentiment I had not read is, “It is an irreparable loss to the IT industry.” I liked that.
Steve Jobs was contributing to what was his company till the day he died; his name had become synonymous with showmanship-cum-marketing brilliance in an industry typically driven by geekiness – think Google. He was, in a sense “convergence” personified. Therefore, the sentiment “irreparable loss” would not have sounded odd, even had it been expressed. But, it was not. I liked that.
Contrast that with what happened with Mansur Ali Khan “Pataudi”. He had severed his connections with the game long ago (except for IPL, not the format in which he made his name). Why was his death, then, a great loss to the cricketing world? I had read this in the newspapers.
In his later years Einstein was far from the days of unbounded admiration from the physics community. Ensconced as an elder, he was more or less tolerated, to be uncharitable about it. M S Subbulakshmi, in her non-performing years, was admired for what she had done. Was her death a loss to Carnatic Music? M F Husain was active in his profession, but I am not aware whether people, even among the arts cognoscenti, tolerated or appreciated his later works. Yet, the death of each one of them was mourned with the sentiment “irreparable loss”, or something equivalent.
Take the case of Richard P Feynman. Just a few years before his death, he established and explained in his inimitable style why the space shuttle “Challenger” blew up. His mind was active till the very end. His death was not unexpected. I do not recall this mushy sentiment being expressed. Even had it been expressed, it would not have been out of place.
I may be sounding callous, but I cannot understand what is the loss when a life that has been well lived and has accomplished much dies? Where is the loss? The dead had contributed immensely in his or her life. It is time to celebrate.
Celebrate what? Celebrate death? That is so macabre, you may think and I will not disagree with you. But I do give below, for your unbenefit what an Irish Wake is (taken from Wikipedia).

WHAT IS AN "IRISH WAKE"?
The traditional Irish Wake was commonplace around Ireland up until about the 1970's. This was the process of Laying out the body of a departed relative in the house where they lived and /or died. All of the family and quite a few of the deceased ones neighbours and friends would gather at the house. The body was usually in a coffin in the parlour of the house or living room. There would be lots of food and plenty of drink to be consumed. People would come and socialise and remember the departed person's life. This wasn't a time for tears to say the least, it was more of a party than a funeral. It was the traditional Irish way of celebrating one's life and ensuring that they had a good send off. [My emphasis]. A proper Irish Wake is worth the time and effort required to return to the old customs. It is hard to imagine a passing being complete without one!


OK, even if there had been an Irish Wake for Steve Jobs (though as far as I can tell he was not of Irish descent), and even had I been invited, I would not have attended! But, that would have been preferable to the customary, teary-eyed yet anodyne sentiment, “an irreparable loss.”
I am glad that the geek community eschewed such plastic stuff.
Raghuram Ekambaram

14 comments:

Indian Satire said...

Raghu, as you maybe aware a particular community in India also celebrates the death with dance and drums. When I was young this used to seem very offending to me but now I understand that this the way life should be, the dead is gone, any amount of crying wont bring them back, better celebrate their life on earth and send them off happily

mandakolathur said...

Thanks Balu for endorsing the non-somber view of a life well lived.

Raghuram Ekambaram

Tomichan Matheikal said...

Steve Jobs does deserve an "Irish Wake" - he had lived life to the full in every sense. I particularly love his view about curiosity and intuition. Even Einstein had said many times that he was just a normal man with intense curiosity. Such qualities deserve the Irish Wake, a celebration.

mandakolathur said...

Thanks Matheikal for the endorsement.

Raghuram Ekambaram

dsampath said...

Everyone contributes..like the squirrel which contributed to the sethu construction of Rama.There are many silent people who have contributed and passed away and a small write up will appear in an obituary column.He was dedicated to bring about economic prosperity for him self,rest was an offshoot.So no big deal.Even Steve jobs was not really functional in his later years like pataudi or einstein.We have lost many saints and sages who were dedicated to the cause of humanity but were less popular.I would rather say that the society lost by their absense..

dsampath said...

Everyone contributes..like the squirrel which contributed to the sethu construction of Rama.There are many silent people who have contributed and passed away and a small write up will appear in an obituary column.He was dedicated to bring about economic prosperity for him self,rest was an offshoot.So no big deal.Even Steve jobs was not really functional in his later years like pataudi or einstein.We have lost many saints and sages who were dedicated to the cause of humanity but were less popular.I would rather say that the society lost by their absense..

mandakolathur said...

True DS sir ... my point was when a person, at the time of his death, is merely coasting how can we say that his death is a loss to the field to which he had contributed earlier.

Your comment makes me bring out the following ... for the last year or so of his life, the so-called Maha Periaval of Kanchi Kamakoti Peetam was merely revered for the "spiritual" services he had rendered earlier. He was disconnected from both the spiritual and secular matters of the Mutt.

Raghuram Ekambaram

palahali said...

When my brother in law passed away almost ten years ago, we had the equivalent of a wake. We drank, laughed and cried...
as for irreplacable, i would say let it be. At times grief might not
have a proper choice of words.

mandakolathur said...

Thanks for the wonderful comment, pala. That must have been truly a gem of a send off.

Raghuram Ekambaram

Aditi said...

The obits were all very appropriate..a life well lived calls for celebration, agree with you there.

mandakolathur said...

Thank you very much Aditi for the endorsement.

I hope you also agree that people have no further purchase on those who have made extensive and deep contributions to their fields when their active life is behind them. In such cases, the sentiment that their demise is a "loss" to that particular society, profession, community is meaningless.

Raghuram Ekambaram

Arun Mehra said...

Well, Raghuram, come to think of it, you have a very good point here, and a very new one. It's like, when a batsman scores a double century, and then gets out, no one mourns his being out, but everyone claps for his magnificent performance.
Regards,
Arun

Arun Mehra said...

Well, Raghuram, come to think of it, you have a very good point here, and a very new one. It's like, when a batsman scores a double century, and then gets out, no one mourns his being out, but everyone claps for his magnificent performance.
Regards,
Arun

mandakolathur said...

Thanks a lot DocAM ... it feels good to get endorsement from people like you.

Raghuram Ekambaram